If the Internet is good for anything—and, actually, it’s good for lots of things—it’s good for finding a needle in a haystack.Whether you’re hankering after a pistol grip for that vintage Hasselblad single reflex camera, or want to learn all the lyrics to R. M.’s “It’s the End of the World as We Know it,” the World Wide Web has made tracking down and securing even the most obscure objects your heart desires a lot easier.In this part of the tutorial, I am going to take a common profile example that would fail to stand out from the crowd, and then re-write it in a way that is optimized towards making others take notice.“Hey my name is Jessica, I run a 10th grade drama program, and I love my job.” So what’s wrong with the online dating profile example above?When you first sign up with match.com, you’ll be asked to give some basic info about yourself.You’ll be able to pick the words that best describe you, and give others an idea of the things you’re interested in, be it eating out, dancing or volunteering.You'll want to write a profile that represents you and what you're looking for.
Your dating profile will be a major factor in your dating success, so it’s essential that it says the right things about you, and truly reflects what you’re looking for in a dating partner.
You’ll also be asked questions about the type of person you’re looking to date.
The answers you give will help people to connect with you, whether that’s through advanced searches, or by seeing your profile as one of their daily matches or the matches we recommend to each member.
Jessica has a great job and may love what she does, but unfortunately, this description will not spark any attraction or interest. So let’s transform the example above into the kind of writing that others will take notice of. Wink…” In the revised profile example, Jessica now appears unique, stands out from the competition, demonstrates various aspects of her personality, reveals qualities men are attracted to (helping others, being silly, etc.), displays nothing but positive energy, shows a passion for her daily life, demonstrate humor with a playful joke, and innocently flirts with the reader.
“Most days of the week you could find me living out my dream as a 10th grade drama teacher. All of this (and more) is accomplished in just a few very short sentences.